What do you want to be when you grow up? I still don’t know.

Post on :17 Mar 16

My father was so relieved when I announced at age 14 that I wanted to be a lawyer. He had grown up in near-poverty, left school at 12 and was a self-made millionaire in later life and had desperately wanted me to get the benefit of a good education and a secure career. Sadly, after … Continue reading What do you want to be when you grow up? I still don’t know.

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I get tired of trying to be better…

Post on :10 Feb 16

I haven’t been happy with my body for 20 years, and it’s worse since pregnancy… My hair is falling out and I moisturise it to within an inch of its life to attempt to look better… I wear makeup and do my hair on the weekends so I feel more attractive to my husband… I … Continue reading I get tired of trying to be better…

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This ‘perfect’ guy said something so gross, I ended the date and never saw him again. What would you have done?

Post on :23 Jan 16

It all started out so well. Chip* was the true All-American type – very handsome, with an angular jaw, smart, friendly, funny, and warm. I met him through Gumtree London (fantastic results for online dating – more on that in another post), and we met on a Saturday afternoon at a pub in Clapham for … Continue reading This ‘perfect’ guy said something so gross, I ended the date and never saw him again. What would you have done?

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I did the opposite of what people told me, and was engaged in six weeks.

Post on :16 Jan 16

Have you heard that dating rule about not revealing too much information, too soon? Not to talk about wanting marriage and babies… especially when you’re in your 30’s. “You’ll seem desperate,” they say. “He’ll run away,” they warn you… Well, I call bullshit. You want to know my number one dating rule? I got engaged to … Continue reading I did the opposite of what people told me, and was engaged in six weeks.

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